I have decided to ask H to move out. After last nights anxiety attack and talking with friends I think it is the only way for me to focus on myself and my daughter to get better. Has anyone been in a situation where they have had to ask to WAS/MLCer to move out or is this a bad decision when I still do want my marriage to work? I'm not giving up but letting him go for me and my daughter. He's not home now but will be home tomorrow night (I think) and on monday night he leaves to go away for work til friday. I was thinking of telling him before he leaves so while he is away (and also away from OW) it will give him time to think about things.
I have no idea whether or not he will even go and I can't force him to but in my heart I think it is the right thing to do.
Any advice on what I should say or how I should say it? Thanks so much.
