Ramblings and the sort from a 1st timer.

[Denver_2010]

Tough call. I think that you should go and focus on the children, not your W. You are going to have a nice afternoon with your kids. Let your W wonder what is going on in your head. At the same time, I think that it is perfectly fine to let yourself have fun. I just wouldn't bend over backwards to make this about you and your W. You don't want it to appear as if she is doing you a favor by inviting you.

It's a tough balancing act. I've been there. Plenty.