I dont think I have ever posted to you but it's ncie to hear you came out of this intact...in your heart and with your new life... I am on my 6th yr. my ex has married o/w they have been together for 5yrs married this yr. And I know some will 2x4 me for saying this but I AM A STANDER and I will be till I am told otherwise by the Lord. I do have a life of my own do fun things,have friends.....but my heart still belongs to my husband....maybe one day that will change but for now I am doing what I know I should be doing.... Or maybe one day I will not be because what I see of my ex, he is not a very nice man anymore.....very selfish,and thinks only of himself But when that day comes I will know I gave it 100%....You deserve much happiness for what you have been thru, for all of us and I hope and pray we all have that again..... Take care and am so happy for you Irma
Irma, Its your right to stand on your head if that is what you wish, but based on what you have said, what are you standing for? Your XH has remarried, he is an arse, mean, selfish, you name it...... What are you standing for? I honestly think you are doing this to make up for mistakes you made when you were younger.... Guess what? That was then, this is now, you are a different person! Quit punishing yourself!!!
