Cutter I get what you are saying, but I really don't want them hating or blaming their mum for what is happening.
I'm not sure I agree with you about exposing them to what their mum has done.
The children are going to need both of us to get through this, I'm worried that this information would harm them emotionally and alienate them from their mum which is not what I want.
Why do you think it is important for them to know the truth about the affair?
Bill
Me 34 W 32 D 9 S 6 M: 9 years T: 12 Bomb: 02/11/12 EA/PA: 12/17/11 - ongoing Moved out: Oct 2012 Joint Filed for D: 2/11/13