On Tuesday I told my wife I was going out on Fri & Sat – she said fine.
Thursday night I get home and she says you’re going out Friday right and I said yeah and Saturday as well. I told you Tuesday night and you said fine – she said fine I will get a sitter I said great !!
She can’t get a sitter she texts me if I have any ideas on Friday and I don’t answer her text – when I get home last night she tells me don’t you ever answer my texts I tell her I didn’t get one.
This morning I am leaving for work she says don’t you ever answer my questions I said I am sorry I am confused she said I asked you if you know any sitters last night (which she didn’t) do you have any ideas I said to call our nieces she said that she tried I said I don’t know anyone else and I left for work.
I am confused as to always agreeing and getting a life in balance – should I have cancelled my plans to go to my concert tonight and stayed home so she could go or am I doing the right thing by going out and trying to get life. Here is the thing I would much rather stay home and relax but I don’t want to be a stay at home babysitter. I really hate being so unsure about everything all the time.
Also my mom invited us over on Sunday and I don’t know if I should ask her to go with us or leave her home – so damn confusing –
Sunny
Me-49 W-41 M-9yrs T-15 6 year old boy She turned 40 and BAZINGA W gave me the ILYBINILWY speech - Oct 2011 next day she came out of it for a month like we were newly weds - Distant and cold from 12/11 to 1/12 I Don't love you at all 2/14/2012 I don't remember a day in my life when I loved you 3/31/2012 I want a divorce Haven't made love since January 2012 Haven't kissed or touched since March 2012 Threatening to call mediator since 6/2012 Still in the same house, separate bedrooms The Joy of the Lord is my strength
If someone decides there is no goodness in you they won't be able to see it. I'll take a BLT over a MLC anyday !!!
