Regretful, I didn't recommend Dance of Anger but rather Dance of Connection. It wasn't clear to me if you read it as Anger.

I would be interested in why you found it a waste. Not that I think everyone should find what I recommend interesting or helpful but I think it helps to see what you are looking for.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss