Oh shoot good call. I was only radiating here, but unconsciously I was starting to focus on missing her, touching etc...& you're absolutely right it was starting to show. Last night while she was asleep I almost tried to cuddle with her because of these feelings. But I didn't.

I have to stray away from these feelings and focus on something else. I'm glad I ask because I wasn't seeing it coming. Thanks 25.

25, what do you think about my goal trying to win her emotions back? And my plan to get that goal is to have small talk with her about our kids and how her day at work, I believe this is how I can be close to her feelings again. Do you think this is being needy/pursuing? I'm watching it though, so far she seem receptive by me asking and she's actually volunteering to talk. But anything I'm missing here?

Newman

me40; W43
M18; T~20
D18; S13 & S3
bomb 5/9/11
EA busted 4/30/12; 9/4/12; 4/29/13; 6/10/13 same OM

Separated 4/1/14

"Even a flicker of light will shine through darkness-12/25/2012"....better days ahead.