Ok thank you. I thought I was taking care of myself but I guess I'm not doing a good enough job. So my attitude has to be he's gone and there's nothing I can do about it? My sisters and my few friends I still have think I should ask him to move out but I'm scared to do that - fear that it pushes him further into OW and fear that he will then take my daughter and introduce her to OW which I cannot allow happen, my daughter cannot handle that. The fear of not knowing what D and H are doing when they are by themselves. But on the other hand maybe its the reality check he needs. When I went away before, we always stayed in touch so he knew where I was and I knew what he and D were doing. And right now, I don't even know where he is.
