I don't know if you are SHOWING it but you are radiating it here...it's safe to do that here --
but know that if you keep focussing on how much you miss her touch, and wish you could just reach out to her, and yada yada,
it might keep you stuck there in your unmet needs
AND That often shows.
I believe where the head goes, the heart will follow, if we let it.
KNOW your plan and why you are implementing it and then stick to it.
WHEN Will she believe in your changes? small consistent changes + sufficient time = change she can believe in.
You will backslide but the thing is to see it and learn from it and then get back on the horse so the backslides come less often and are smaller too...
If what you recall are good memories of close times, then trust that she'll eventually have those memories resurfacing in her heart too,
unless you chase them away by making her defend her choices.
Let her figure HER part out - while YOU do your own stuff.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
