What I meant by her seeing someone I would continue on the db path.
As far as the divorce goes, she had asked me if I wanted to fill out the paperwork with her. I told her it is not what I want, so I won't help. What am I supposed to say? Why would I help her divorce me? I have talked to a attorney and I have a pretty good idea of what she is entitled to. If I do get served I will not just sign it without consulting someone first.
The part about the messenger was in reference to the castle/picnic analogy. Like she was testing me to see if I was going to beg and plead.
My plans with the kids are to just have fun, and I would like to travel with them. Take them climbing, camping, generally be the best dad that I can.
Me 37/W 32 S 5 D 4 ILYBNILWY 5/12 Sep 8/12 Starting to find myself 11/12 on
