I feel sorry for her because she clung onto her M too long, and put up with too much negativity from H. I am glad to say that I feel I have grown way past that. Even though I still love my STBXH, I realize that it's not enough. Trust is the key issue for us, and I doubt I could ever trust him again, especially since he (for no real reason) continues to lie to me. If this is who he is, then I'm not interested, even if he wants back in.
GAL is the way to go ---- agreed! Humor gets one through a lot ---- agreed!
I've seen my H do great things too, but not in the past 7 years, that I've noticed. But, I was trying to concentrate on myself, and my issues. So, maybe it went below the radar.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
