Foreveryoung-is an affair a dealbreaker..well..I honestly could not say. I feel at the moment that an EA would be manageable but PA not, even though EA cld likely lead to PA. We did agree not to date etc until we are living separately but I don't think she wld stick to that if the opp arose. I may be wrong but she hasd changed - she seems a lot more agressive and the slightest thing gets blown out of proportion.
I wld not confront her without proof and have no intention of driving myself mad again trying to prove something that may or may not exist.
I am of the view that w is in a fog which is helping come to terms with what she does and not blaming myself. I continue to work on my faults and have a vision of how I want to be as a person which I will work towards. But it is difficult being positive around her when inside is filled with turmoil.
