I don't believe it is God's will to "stand" for a marriage that is over. I've seen others (and I disagree with this, too) stand for YEARS while their supposedly-MLC spouse cheats, unrepentently, but they are at least still MARRIED.
Perceiving yourself to be "standing" for a marriage that is over, in my opinion (from reading all of your posts these past several weeks), will only hold you back from letting go and healing.
