The only problem I have with this is you are in such a fragile state, how can you determin what God is telling you? When I was going through my divorce, I took EVERYTHING as a sign from God that he wanted us back together.
You are going to go through a lot of hurt this route. If you really trust in God's will, it will happen as long as you let go. Problem, is, you have not let go.
Brian, I can tell you that I have let go.. Sure I would be lying if I told you that I dont want us any long, cause I do. But I can tell you with all honesty I HAVE let go. I no longer worry about what they are doing. If shes there. If he thinks of me. I KNOW he is with her. Nothing I can do to change his mind. It is what it is. But I am standing for my marriage? Yes - because I believe we still have that chance.
M:43/ H:39 T:12/ M:9 S8, D15 M affair(one night): 2/09 M EA: 2/12-7/12 D:6/7/12 H: GF since 7/24/12
God,Family, and the Green Bay Packers. - Vince Lombardi
