Agreed. I think Kimmerz, that you have highlighted how you are further along than he is. You seem to have a mindset of "hey, it happened. It's over. Time to get on with life." but he hasn't caught up. He may never catch up.
What you are saying is reasonable with anyone else, but not with him. That's where your expectations are out of whack.
Problem solve? Really? I mean, if that were possible then he wouldn't have left or felt like he "had to" or "couldn't do it anymore" as mine said on many occasions.
They can't be reasonable. That would be to admit "something" that they are not ready to admit.
He's a three-sided wheel when it comes to interacting with you, Kimmerz. No explanation, but that's how it is, at least for now.
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
