Not sure how to react over possibility of an affair tho! But for the time being there is nothing for me to say on the matter. She snapped at a random comment I made that she had a text message early in the morning. I just made a comment re it must be important txting so early. She barked that she is entitled to a private life and its none of my business! Serves me right I suppose and shld have kept quiet.
Say nothing unless you have proof of an A. Then decide how you want to proceed before approaching her about it. Is it a deal breaker for you? What kind of boundaries are you willing to set and hold her to?
The fact that she feels entitled to a 'private life' means even if she isn't involved in an A she may not be opposed to one, 'should it happen'. Step carefully here.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
