AnotherStander thank for replying again. I am certainly having a better day today. Your comments are much appreciated and helping. I will give the words of afirmation another try as it wld make me feel better just saying them as opposed to thinking should I or shouldn't I.
W was v negative earlier after yet another fruitless trip to the benefits office and she looked incredibly irritated and stressed. But it is he reality of what she has asked for. She actually looked like she hated me. I didn't bite! Just listened and said that's unfortunate for her. She then told me about the issues re housing and was getting v negative about the sitch.
Not sure how to react over possibility of an affair tho! But for the time being there is nothing for me to say on the matter. She snapped at a random comment I made that she had a text message early in the morning. I just made a comment re it must be important txting so early. She barked that she is entitled to a private life and its none of my business! Serves me right I suppose and shld have kept quiet.
