Originally Posted By: ForMyHusband

Is there any threads on here where people have actually reconciled?


Lots! And they're quite inspiring! Check out the many stories in this forum:

Another Divorce Busted!

And also check out this sticky in MLC:

MLC Successes/Cinders list of Restored Marriages

And these bootcamp threads:

Successful Women

Successful Men

Unfortunately not all the links are active because some of the threads are quite old, but there's enough active links in there to keep you reading for quite a while. There are some newer success stories in the piecing forum that aren't included in the above, so look there too.

Originally Posted By: ForMyHusband
One last question - what is the rule about talking to people he is close to?


Do not talk about the M at all. Even if you think his mom has your best interests in mind, chances are very good she's going to talk to him and he will perceive that as you trying to use his relatives to get what you want. It's OK to talk to them and make small talk, but do NOT talk about the M.


Me: 60 w/ S18, D24, D27

M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:57