One last question - what is the rule about talking to people he is close to? I am close with his mom and we've talked and she thinks he will come around once he sees he can trust me but I don't think she knows the full extent of the situation as it is right now. But I am really scared for him and our daughter. Is it wrong to share my fear with her and she is also scared he is having a nervous breakdown. We are all going to thanksgiving dinner next weekend but will not do or say anything there as other family members don't know.
