Ok I understand now how to frame it. He made a comment about working this saturday which confused me because he said he was going away. So I aksed I thought you were going away, he said "not far" which means probably just staying at OW place. He said he wasn't sure if he was working because its supposed to rain (he works in construction on the weekends) so I said "D and I are going to the fair or zoo, you're welcome to come if it rains". He just said "ok". Which probably means no but I won't bring it up again.
So essentially he's just staying away from the house for the weekend and then on monday he goes away for work for a week which makes me sad because he's not spending any time with his daughter before he goes away frown OW seems to be more important than anything else right now. Even one of his friends has been calling the house and H has not been returning his calls.
BUT I will stick to the plan. I didn't respond when he said "not far" and me and my daughter will just go about our business this weekend and week.
The one good thing about him going away for work is that he will also be away from OW. What should my contact be like while he is away?

Getting through my own MLC and now waiting on him is the biggest challenge of my life and I am willing to accept this 100 percent right now. But me, my daughter and he (right now) are worth it. This will make me stronger regardless of the outcome.

Is there any threads on here where people have actually reconciled?

I really appreciate the advice and support, again, so thankful that I found this site.