So when I said trigger, and not "cause", what do you mean? In my mind, if I caused this to happen to him, then I am responsible? I mean I really do feel responsible if that is indeed what he is going through now and I was up all night comparing the things that I have done to what he is doing and its surreal to me how similar it is.
Trigger = To set off; initiate:
Cause = effect, make, create, produce
If you pull the trigger on a gun it goes off but if you point it at someone and pull the tigger you are the cause of their being shot. You did not CAUSE his MLC! You may have inititated it but please for give yourself for whatever you did. You only set it in motion.
Originally Posted By: ForMyHusband
Is there anything I can say or do to make him realize this?NO Or just continue on course with my "DB" techniques? YES Does the DR book talk about MLC as well? YES
MLC is a very complicated dis-ease. It is within each person and can only be fixed by that person. It is similar to a hurricane and I ask if you can stop one of those? NOPE - best to stay out of the way and evacuate if you need to. It can cause a lot of destruction and it is best not to be hit by a flying tree when it passes through your neighborhood.
You are going to need a lot of patience to get through this. You will be TESTED, over and over. If you are up for the challenge then you have a good chance to succeed.
