Am looking great. Lost 3 stone. Am almost the ideal weight for my height. I have fantastic shoulder and arm muscle due to my working out (do have a cold though at the moment/maybe man flu) my chest muscles are getting in shape. I just need to get my feet on the floor now and get a home for me.
It's time to look after me.
I do genuinely want my wife to be happy even though I still hurt because of her affair but its time to forgive but not forget. None of this was my choice. Maybe I did some things wrong but I was never nasty or bad in my marriage. Maybe I got a little lost with communicating but I know 100% for sure I put in a ton of effort and my wife put in the minimum of effort.
Everything that's happened has been her choices.
She is still trying to control this divorce to benifit her.
I just want now what's fair. The law is there to protect us both. Not to benifit one person. I will admit my conscience doesn't like fighting over assets and money but I need to look after me.
Kevin.
Me-38W-28. M-2 1/2. Together-7 years OM-14/4/12 Told M in trouble-17/4/12 BD-5/6/12 S-5/6/12 ProofOM-17/06/12 Start to change me-31/08/12 EA+PA-14/04/12-now
