She on the other hand seems to be in more pain than me. I can even see it aging her face. It hurts me greatly to see her in such pain, while rejecting the very person who would most like to help her through it. So incredibly sad.
Yes mate. I feel the same way when I see my W. Don't take me wrong, she has good days (which usually means bad for me) but overall, I realized that both her and I have physically aged over the last few months. Maybe happiness does keep you young.
It is sad that we can't help them get through this. No one out there could do it better than us, loving husbands. They would be in safe hands and in their good days (for us) we could share moments of happiness which I'm sure would help them greatly.
I think you did well about the house convo. Don't bring it up again. Maybe she won't either.
Freshman Class of 2012
M-49 W-42 1D-10 T 10 YEARS M 9 YEARS EA/MLC 07/2010 Separation 28/05/2012 PA confirmed 31/07/12 W Asked for D 31/07/12 D on and off the table since then