The advice to women is always to protect yourself financially, to consider the splitting of assets and spousal support it a business matter only. Separate the emotion and don't give away your rights.
The same advice, I think, would apply to you.
Just remember to be calm, cool and collected during the negotiations and get information on your entitlements for yourself. Don't rely on what your wife tells you.
me 45 H 46 T 5 M 2.5 BD Sept 6 2011 OW Sept 8 2011 Threw him out Sept 8 2011