T2, thanks for sharing so freely your sitch. As RH has said it really does show that this is a long road. I guess our hope is that in the end we have built a much better M and have helped a friend through the MLC sickness, it does hurt to see the pain that each of our spouses are suffering.
I would rather feel pain then never feel at all... Separated 3/2012 T 34 yrs M 27 yrs