So when I said trigger, and not "cause", what do you mean? In my mind, if I caused this to happen to him, then I am responsible? I mean I really do feel responsible if that is indeed what he is going through now and I was up all night comparing the things that I have done to what he is doing and its surreal to me how similar it is.
Is there anything I can say or do to make him realize this? Or just continue on course with my "DB" techniques? Does the DR book talk about MLC as well?