Always level-headed Kat Yes, I do know. To ignore someone like that to that extreme, to call her stupid, like a 13 year old, to say she is 'crazy'. I am going to be honest - it disgusts me more that he acts like that then that he had sex with her. I don't know her. But to treat people like that... Well I am having a serious question with do I want to be around a person like that, and IS he this person.
Not ready for a marriage workshop yeah, but I will get the book in the next couple of weeks and read. I did read a 'How to handle difficult people' pamphlet today. I am going to try a few of those techniques.
Basically, even though he is adamant about pushing my buttons, I need to be consistent, firm and loving. Even if he hates it right now. I need to work on consistency. Stop being emotional and be stone like. Which also means we do NOT have ANY discussions if I am tired or hungry.
I enrolled in a parenting class from my son's church school. Was good, goes on for the next month. It's about turning 'me' to 'we' - a bit difficult to do with someone who doesn't want there to be a 'we', even if means WE parent.
Gonna go off and make a list of things i need to do to take better care of myself mentally, physically and go to bed. Tough week.
Me& h + S M: 13 t: 14
H moved 2/12. Own apt 05/12, EAs, PAs, gfriends, oh my! I'm done. 12/12
"I get knocked down, but I get up again.. you're never gonna keep me down" Chumbawumba
Yes, I do know. To ignore someone like that to that extreme, to call her stupid, like a 13 year old, to say she is 'crazy'. 
