Quote: ...it happened in small steps...there was the "I don't think I'll come home and find him gone" milestone then the "I don't think he's loathing our marriage" one then the "he seems marginally recommitted", etc.
My point? That it truly has been a bunch of teeny, tiny babysteps.
So, do you think that part of his coming out of crisis mode had to do with how you saw things going for the two of you?
Also, just curious....what type of engineer are you?