You have a great attitude Hrm, you've been at this a long time, are you going to celebrate that anniversary? ..maybe a card to your H?..Can relate to what Snodderly has said about being put into a box and that MLC'ers act normal to the outside world. BTW my MIL, who I have known for 36 yrs has not contacted me or her grandkids in over 5 months to see if we are OK. Blood is thicker than water, I have said this previously on my thread too. It STILL blows me away.