Some great things here Sage. Your H REALLY DOES GET IT. I can tell from just the words you have written here, I'm sure you really feel it when you are together with him. That is SO AWESOME.

I read on a prior post about you getting out of crisis mode. Can you recall the pivotal point on how you knew you were getting closer to coming out of crisis mode? What were the signs that he was considering the thought of you guys together again? Did he actually come out and say it? At anytime during that stage did you feel like he really has made up his mind and he would not change it? Looking for signs myself and don't know if I'm reaching for a falling knife.