After my daughter went to bed, I came into MY bedroom and closed the door, H was out in the living room. I printed one of the threads on here called AmyC's musing (Cadet I think you reposted this) and I am literally crying because it so describes my behaviour over the past 2 years. Maybe I was in a MLC, I think now I really was but will talk more to my therapist about it. Can a spouse in a MLC trigger a MLC in the other spouse? Because I now see him doing all the behaviours I was doing (my mirror effect I call it). He came in a few minutes ago and said "goodnight" and now he is gone to bed.
