Agree. He's not pulling away from you, and this is a great sign. Things take a long time, so continue being patient. What I don't understand if the "pause" in his R with the OW. They're still seeing each other and she brings him dinner? I totally understand why you can't take it. Would you agree to him moving in with you when this OW still is in the picture? Make sure you are both ready to move back in together.