I am sorry your H has filed. Continue to stay strong and keep living life as you are. It is easy to say "it's just a piece of paper" and reality for most is the attachment of emotions around the meaning of that piece of paper.
From your time on here you have made great strides to learn about yourself and overcome a lot of things that may have been holding you back. You are a strong woman, very capable of this and anything else life puts in front of you.
Contact your L and know that this is only the beginning of THIS process. You are still in charge of your life, just remember that there continues to be no way of predicting the future and what it may bring.
we must remember that there are other things out there that are good for us, if only we are open to them
I read yesterday - that one can reframe rejection and see it not as someone rejecting us and who we are, but rathe that it's the universe's protection for us so that we can be available for what we truly need in our lives
Isn't that a lovely way f looking at what we are faced with now?
(((((( )))))) zig
me 46 H 38 M10yrs T 11 S10 BD ow 8/11 h filed 9/25/12
"if i could define enlightenment briefly, i would say it is the quiet acceptance of what is"
