How about this Rachael, pulling from my own sitch...W doesn't "want to ever hear" that she flaunted her online activities and OM's...she knows she did, I know she did...and she knows that is cruel, and not the kind of person she sees herself as...she is embarrassed or mad at herself for being so mean and hurtful(maybe? or something)...she doesn't want to or can't face that side of herself right now, if ever...so she doesn't want to be reminded. If I were to persist in getting the confession and that I am right, how would it help the sitch? How would it help ME? What would I gain from it aside from being "right" and "justified"?? Maybe later, if an R happens, it will eventually be worked through... if we separate, then what does it matter?
hope that helps some
T^2
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm
