Thanks all for advice! Labug I owe you a glass of wine and a beer:-) it sounds like our get together is still on for tonight. While i have a clear head i have written myself a note for after to remind me that after tonight i need to truly let go and let her find her way. Easier said than done but i feel ok about it and it will be nice to leave things on a possitive. I need to be strong for my girls, myself and my W.
No backsliding and just try and move on and hope she eventually finds her way back. I think the hardest part will be when she starts dating again. It maybe a good thing for her to see what else is out there but it will hurt none the less.
In preperation for going forward i joined a local sungle parents group that i use to be part of. No intention of dating or looking for another relationship just figured it was a good way to get out and have a little fun instead of sitting at home and wondering what my W is up to.
M-45 W-44 2D - 11&13 2SS - 11&17 Married 10/10/10 Bomb 3/5/12 Moved 5 houses away 4/20/12 Back together 9/12 Seperated 6/13 Divorce Final 11/13/13
