Thank you for what you shared...seems like our mlc spouses are working through their issues with opposite-gender parents with us... It is good to get your perspective and experience.
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It had never occurred to me before that W's can look at their H's in a father role. It seems to me she looks at you that way and the idea of OM brings out romantic feelings in her.
I don't know if "romantic" is the necessarily the dynamic with this OM...he is a lot younger, and very fem, from what I gathered from his public internet trails...I do know she has always been jealous of my brains and "old soul" knowledge and has expressed feeling inferior to me, so maybe somethings else like power, "male girlfriend", superiority mixed in there...? lol, who knows...maybe someday I will find out, maybe not. Big picture...it doesn't really matter.
I am sorry you H seems to be imitating Thelma and Louise regarding the D...it is so hard to just watch and accept...
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