So finally hung some things up in the house and pictures where I took all the old pictures down. The empty walls were just about as depressing as the pictures themselves. It makes me feel a lot better to have pictures of family and friends up. Like they are there for me even when I am alone in that house. My cat wasn't eating for a long time, I assume because of all the changes. I heard that animals can sense change and get nervous. I was worried that the cat was going to croak and I would be all alone in the house. She is eating and healthy again. Detaching has helped a lot, things seem (relatively) normal for the first time in a while!
Me - 32 Wife - 31 No kids Married - 3 Together - 6 "I need space" - July 2012 Bomb/Presence of OM - August 2012 Separation - September 2012