T, She is still going through the motions of filing, sorting, etc. Listening and validating when necessary are about all you can do right now. She is fighting her inner self and we all know that we can't be Peter Pan forever. She's getting there and it is a very slow process for her because she's fighting it all the way.
If you feel okay w/not wearing your ring for a while, then by all means leave it off. I think you are giving her some space w/no pressure by leaving it off.
T, you are going to have to dig even deeper for more patience. It is crucial that you do not rush her now. She's right where she needs to be at this moment.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
