Embarrassing fact. House is in both our names and it’s currently in foreclosure. Respectfully, I don’t need any advice regarding selling, modification, saving, short sale, etc….In simple terms, we are past that point, none of that is happening.
Currently W is renting apartment on a 9 month lease and she’s 5 months into it. W told me several months ago that I could stay in the house as long as I want and that’s exactly what I plan on doing. My GUESS is a sale date could be established at any time however I have no idea when that will be. It could be a month from now or a year from now, I have no idea. One thing I do know, my W is a HUGE “planner.” Once again though, I cant read into things.
Here’s a message I just received from W.
From W: “Do you know when you have to leave the house and where you and dog are going?”
I really want to decipher the logic behind it but I know that might be impossible. Part of me want to simply reply, “Hey W, why do you ask?” However I think that might come across a bit “weak.”
By asking her “why” might give me additional insight for a proper response. Yes, this is all “basic” communication and I gotta do some of this on my own but I’ve never gone through this sh!it before and as I’ve said before, some of the decisions and actions that I make right now will heavily impact the future. Plus this discussion is about my living situation so it's BIG stuff!
BTW, I’ve been VERY distant from W. I feel I’ve shown very little compassion. I am pretty short with her and she knows it’s evident that I don’t have a lot of time to talk with her. This is something I’ve been thinking a lot about recently. It’s good and bad, it’s a fine line that I am walking and I know that I need to leave the door SLIGHTLY open. Don't get me wrong though, I always smile around her and generally I am always upbeat. The good news is that it protects my emotions a bit!
I sent her a brief text last night at 1:00 AM. She also knows I am “busy” tomorrow night because she wanted me to watch the kids on one of the nights that's not my night. Just kinda putting everything together for you guys so you get the picture. Thanks in advance for suggestions.
