I'm hearing the same thing... No trust in the changes.

I think if I can force myself to focus on making the changes and not so much on H or what he thinks or the M, I might be in better mental shape.

That's the hard part of course... That and balancing giving him space vs giving him love. I've got to learn to back off and let him come to me.


Me54, H53
M 23, T 25
S20, S18
BD: April 2024
Moved out: August 2024

Love means not giving up on someone even if they've given up on you.

"Being right is the booby prize of life." - Susan Page