Rick I agree with Sun as well, maybe you can perhaps take it a step farther and tell her not to worry about fixing you dinner. this could serve as a final notice to her that you are done. I know you will have to fend for yourself in a few weeks or so, but you seemed to be confused in my opinion. Although I have been on here for a while I have never heard of your situation. Your ex to me is rubbing it in your face, and your taking it. You like the dinners and yes I saw the pics. Is she doing this out of guilt or rubbing it in your face. I know you are very strong, however this seems way over the top with her actions and words.... Are you keeping the peace in case of a R. Please stay strong my friend. Scott