Originally Posted By: Breakdown


My W said my changes were to try to save the M, repeatedly, for a long long time. I bet it was 6 months before she even started to consider the fact that they might be real. It was probably 12 months before she started referring to me in the terms "new me" and "old me." Your H might need more time, he might need less, but if it's less, I seriously doubt it will be much less.



Same here ^^^ ... exactly


M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce