Dont most people who have been cheated on and/or separated want that to stop though.

Yes, but it seems that in the last 3 + years you've been waiting on her to change to make your life better.

Create a great life for you without her. Maybe she'll see that and want to be a part of it.

Her R with the your child is up to her, let her deal with that. Your job is to concentrate on being the best Dad you can be. You have no control over what kind of parent she is. Let it go.

It seems that you're living in the past, reliving everything that happened. It would be good if you could move your head to Sept 2012 and go from there.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss