"So Sunny, aside from your W what else can you tell me about you? What hobbies do you have? What do you do for a living? What dreams and goals to you have for you life?"

I work in the financial markets and I also work a tiny part time job in a music store. I am also an aspiring Christian Musician. Hobbies are reading, going to see bands, Bible study, prayer group, collecting guitars, I write Christian songs and I am forming a band right now -- I also love weight lifting and sleeping having a lot of trouble sleeping without my wife in the bed still after 5 months.

Being a devout Christian I only have 2 choices - she can leave
me or she can cheat - the hardest thing for me is seeing the sweetest kindest person I ever met turn into this self obsessed monster.

Eric I see you been a member a long time can you tell me what brought you here and your story ??

Thanks for you help --

Sunny

Me-49 W-41
M-9yrs T-15
6 year old boy
She turned 40 and BAZINGA
W gave me the ILYBINILWY speech - Oct 2011 next day she came
out of it for a month like we were newly weds - Distant and cold from 12/11 to 1/12
I Don't love you at all 2/14/2012
I don't remember a day in my life when I loved you 3/31/2012 I want a divorce
Haven't made love since January 2012
Haven't kissed or touched since March 2012
Threatening to call mediator since 6/2012
Still in the same house, separate bedrooms
The Joy of the Lord is my strength

If someone decides there is no goodness in you they won't be able to see it.
I'll take a BLT over a MLC anyday !!!