Can This Be Salvaged?

[leopoldstotch]

AnotherStander,

I agree entirely with your feedback, but I need hep reconciling how filling the love tank is not considered pursuing activity. Any thoughts?

Williams I think AnotherStander is correct. When I first came here last year I believe that Sandi2 told me that I needed to show my wife that I loved her. I too did not understand how to do this and still DB but it can be done without pursuing.

I haven't read your sitch but I will check it out soon. To give you some examples of what I have been doing I do compliment my wife on how she looks when she is getting ready for work not everyday but once in a while I do. Oh for those who don't know or in case I didn't say it we do sleep in the same bed. It's a king size bed she sleeps on one side while I'm on the other. So yes I still do see her naked for those who may ask and yes she sees me naked as well. What does this mean? I have no idea lol. My point is sometimes she accepts the compliment sometimes she doesn't.

Figure out what your wife's LL is and start filling her tank.