Originally Posted By: labug
I haven't read your whole thread but from you post above, I think the more important question is what will make you happy?

past 3 3/4 years since she started drinking and cheating and now only gets to see her son a couple of hours per week.

Also, how did she ever expect a marriage to work when she always had a different guy she was thinking about.


Is this the kind of marriage you want to be in?


No, not like this.

Dont most people who have been cheated on and/or separated want that to stop though.

Her perception changed when she dropped out of AA and started drinking.

This now may or may not be the real her, just like her mother was.

By the way, thank you for replying. I felt like i was talking to myself on here.

Ed


Me, 55 W, 36
T, 10 yrs
S-9
M, 8 yrs
1st D-Day, 9-27-2009, With 1st bf, ea/pa
2nd D-Day, 12-5-2009, With her best friends bf, ea/pa
W, AA relapse early 2009-Current
W moved out 2-16-2012
New OM 5-2012