Originally Posted By: labug
I haven't read your whole thread but from you post above, I think the more important question is what will make you happy?

past 3 3/4 years since she started drinking and cheating and now only gets to see her son a couple of hours per week.

Also, how did she ever expect a marriage to work when she always had a different guy she was thinking about.


Is this the kind of marriage you want to be in?


Good question. It's good to understand their frame of mind and decide whether you want to participate or not.