I haven't read your whole thread but from you post above, I think the more important question is what will make you happy?

past 3 3/4 years since she started drinking and cheating and now only gets to see her son a couple of hours per week.

Also, how did she ever expect a marriage to work when she always had a different guy she was thinking about.


Is this the kind of marriage you want to be in?


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss