Also have you read the 5 Love Languages? It's time to start filling your W's love tank, it sounds like it's been empty for quite some time. Yours probably is as well, but first you have to fill hers, then she'll want to start filling yours.

Me: 60 w/ S18, D24, D27

M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:57