In my book, I can rarely justify divorce. There’s only a couple scenarios where it’s truly a viable option. There’s nothing worse than two separated or divorced parents arguing and bad mouthing one another. What a horrible situation to put the kids in. I am glad there’s not extreme animosity between W and I. I don’t think we let our emotions get the best of us. I have every intention to keep this stance regardless of what happens between W and I. The kids come first!
You may or may not be able to CONTROL this(the divorce) If they want it bad enough they will get it. It is one more cheesless tunnel that they must go down. It takes two to argue. One can have an arguement but if the other does not participate then it is much harder to continue.
Originally Posted By: roughenough
Hi Cadet, I just wanted to let you know that I read a lot of your posts, I really think you have a lot to offer to the people that need help on this site. I really liked the link you used earlier today on someone else’s thread, it's the one about detachment, I see why you empathize the subject. Thanks again for all the help you provide.
Rough
I have lots of links and have read lots of books and threads here. I can only encourage you to do the same. It has given me lots of comfort. We are not the first or last to go through this. Others that have come before gave me comfort. I know that I can PAY that debt forward and help ones after me with the same thing.
